If you've been on dating apps for months getting zero matches, you know the frustration. You upload photos, write what you think is a decent bio, swipe right on women you find attractive... and then nothing.
Radio silence.
Maybe you get the occasional match who never responds. Or worse, you start wondering if there's something fundamentally wrong with you. You might even catch yourself thinking the apps are rigged, or that women these days have impossible standards.
I get it. But here's what you need to know: You're not undateable. Your profile is just full of red flags you don't even realize are there.
A while back, I started sitting with my female friends while they swiped through dating apps. What I saw blew my mind.
Profile after profile of decent-looking guys getting instant left swipes. Not because they were ugly or boring, but because they were making the same basic mistakes over and over.
No smiles. Bathroom selfies. Dead animals. Sunglasses in every photo. Complaints about "drama." Trying to be smooth with cheesy pickup lines.
These guys were sabotaging themselves before women even read their bios.
The craziest part? When I asked my friends what they were looking for, it wasn't anything complicated. They just wanted to see a genuine guy who looked approachable and had his life together. Someone who seemed safe, stable, and interesting enough to grab coffee with.
That's it. That's the bar.
So I did something simple. I took everything my female friends complained about and did the opposite. I fixed my photos based on what actually made them stop swiping. I rewrote my prompts using language that created curiosity instead of killing it.
The results were immediate and almost embarrassing.
Within days, I went from getting maybe a match per month to having so many likes I couldn't keep up. I've got a screenshot on my phone right now showing 50+ likes just sitting there waiting for me to respond. There were weeks when I had dates scheduled every single night because I had too many matches to manage.
And before you think I'm some kind of male model with a trust fund...
I'm 5'8". Divorced with three kids. I drive a Chevy Malibu and live in a regular apartment. I'm not even white, which supposedly puts me at a disadvantage on dating apps.
If I can get these results, what's your excuse?
Here's something that will instantly improve your results: Most men's dating profiles look like police lineups.
Seriously. No smile, harsh lighting, staring directly at the camera like they're posing for a mugshot. When women see these photos, their first instinct isn't attraction – it's fear.
The #1 mistake guys make isn't being unattractive. It's looking unapproachable. And there's one simple fix that changes everything, but most guys are too stubborn to do it.
I watched women swipe left on genuinely good-looking guys just because of this one thing. Then I watched those same women swipe right on average-looking guys who understood this principle.
Once you know what women are actually looking for in photos (hint: it's not your abs), you can transform your results overnight.
Here's another mind-blowing insight from watching women swipe: Every attempt at being smooth or romantic in your profile makes you look desperate or creepy.
I know that sounds backwards. Aren't dating apps about romance?
But women are bombarded with inappropriate messages and sexual comments from the moment they sign up. When you put romantic language in your profile – even innocent stuff – you get lumped in with all the creeps.
There's a specific type of language that signals you're relationship material without triggering their defenses. It's not about being cold or distant. It's about demonstrating value in a way that feels authentic rather than pushy.
My most successful prompt response has been called "unforgettable" by multiple women. It shows personality and creates curiosity without a hint of romance or cheese. And it works because it follows a specific formula that gives women multiple conversation starters.
Even if you think your profile is positive, I guarantee you're using language that's costing you matches.
Simple phrases like "no drama" or "tired of games" might seem reasonable to you. But to women, they scream "bitter guy with baggage who's going to project his past failures onto me."
There's a way to communicate your standards and boundaries without sounding negative. It's about framing what you want, not complaining about what you don't want.
This shift alone can double your match rate. Women want to feel excited about meeting you, not worried about what might set you off.
Sitting with my female friends while they used dating apps was like getting access to a secret playbook. I heard their unfiltered reactions to hundreds of profiles.
"Why does he look so angry?"
"Is that his ex in that photo?"
"Ugh, another shirtless bathroom selfie."
"This bio is just complaining about women."
"I can't even see his face with those sunglasses."
But I also heard what made them stop and pay attention:
"Oh, he has such a nice smile!"
"This is actually funny."
"I wonder what that story is about."
"He seems really genuine."
"I'd definitely message him back."
The difference between instant rejection and genuine interest wasn't looks, height, or income. It was understanding what women actually respond to versus what men think they respond to.
My results after implementing these insights:
And this happened fast. Within the first week of fixing my profile, I got more likes than I'd gotten in the previous six months combined.
The psychological shift was incredible. I went from feeling undateable to realizing I'd just been presenting myself wrong. Once you get that first like after months of nothing, everything changes. You stop operating from scarcity and start making choices from abundance.
I've taken everything I learned and created a systematic approach that any guy can follow. It's called The Green Flag System™ because it teaches you to showcase the signals women actually want to see while eliminating the red flags that make them swipe left.
This isn't about pretending to be someone you're not. It's about presenting your authentic self in a way that women actually respond to.
Get The System Now → Transform Your Profile TodayEverything is laid out in a simple, day-by-day plan that takes you from wherever you are now to getting those first likes that prove you're actually dateable.
Imagine checking your phone next week and seeing that notification – someone liked your profile. After months of nothing, that first like hits different.
It's not just validation. It's proof that you're not broken or undateable. You just needed to present yourself better.
That first like leads to your first match. Your first match leads to your first conversation. Your first conversation leads to your first date in months.
Suddenly you're not the guy desperately hoping for attention. You're the guy choosing which matches to pursue.
Most guys using The Green Flag System™ report:
Most dating advice for men is written by men, for men, based on what men think women want. It's like trying to sell a product without ever talking to your customers.
Generic advice tells you to "be confident" or "be yourself" without explaining what that actually looks like in a dating profile. It focuses on mindset without giving you practical steps.
The Green Flag System™ is different because it's based on:
This isn't theory. This is what actually works.
Every week you stay stuck with a broken profile costs you more than you realize.
While you're getting zero matches, other guys are connecting with the women you'd love to meet. While you're wondering what's wrong with you, they're scheduling dates.
But it's not just about missing opportunities. It's about what this does to your confidence and self-worth. Every day without matches reinforces the belief that you're undateable. Every silent notification makes you a little more bitter.
Meanwhile, the fix is surprisingly simple. Most guys are just a few photo changes and prompt tweaks away from completely different results.
The question is: How much longer are you willing to stay stuck?
For less than the cost of one date, you can transform your entire dating life.
The Green Flag System™ includes:
Plus, you'll discover:
Everything is delivered instantly as a downloadable guide you can start using today.
You could have a completely transformed profile by this time next week. You could be getting likes from women who wouldn't have given your old profile a second glance.
Or you could keep doing what you're doing and hoping for different results.
A week from now, you could be staring at the same empty inbox, wondering why women don't appreciate "nice guys."
Or you could be managing multiple matches, figuring out which interesting woman to meet for coffee first.
The difference comes down to whether you're willing to admit your current approach isn't working and try something based on what women actually respond to.
Remember: I'm 5'8", divorced with three kids, driving a regular car and living a normal life. If I can get 50+ likes backed up in my queue, what's stopping you?
The only thing standing between you and consistent matches is the decision to fix what's broken.
There's a moment coming for you. It's the moment you get that first like after implementing The Green Flag System™.
For a second, you might not believe it. After months of nothing, seeing that notification feels surreal.
But it's real. And it's proof that you were never undateable – you just needed to present yourself better.
That moment changes your entire perspective on dating. Suddenly, you're not the problem. Your old approach was the problem. And now that you've fixed it, a whole new world of possibilities opens up.
Every guy deserves to feel that shift from scarcity to abundance. From invisible to desired. From frustrated to confident.
The only question is: When do you want your moment to happen?
You can keep waiting and hoping things magically improve. Or you can take control and make it happen using a proven system based on what women actually want.
The women you want to meet are out there, swiping through profiles right now. Make sure yours is one that makes them stop and smile.
P.S. Still skeptical? I get it. But ask yourself this: What's the cost of staying exactly where you are? Another month of zero matches? Another year? At some point, you have to try something different. The Green Flag System™ works because it's based on what women actually respond to, not what guys think they should respond to. Make the change today.